Megan Baceda, Energy Management Mentor

Motherhood is a crazy ride. It completely transforms you on all fronts; mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.

In the past, it’s been expected, acceptable and normalized to white-knuckle the different stages of motherhood, winging it and being at the whim of whatever crazy sh*t comes your way, or allowing “experts” to guide and direct you, without very much inner consideration.

And it has worked, sometimes it works out, some people are genuinely out to help mothers do and be their best. But it’s also, in some ways, created co-dependent mothers who are drifting further away from the innate wisdom they hold within.

Here are 3 reasons (plus 2 bonus reasons) why EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), aka Tapping, and your personal Astrology chart can bring you closer to yourself, more than ever before!

1. Rekindle your lost spark within.

A lot of time people think moms just need more rest. A lot of moms think this as well, and sure, it’s true about half the time.

But the other half of the time, we want to feel a spark of life, inspiration, creativity and fun.
Maybe some adventure and spontaneity.
A little something invigorating that isn’t drama or stress-inducing.

Your astrology chart can give you invaluable information to get you in touch with your innate essence, what you’re craving and how you might go about rekindling that lost spark.

EFT can help you believe you’re worthy and that it’s safe to go for it!

2. Rediscover your lost sense of self.

When you become a mother, your life is transformed completely in the blink of an eye, on all fronts. Even those of us who set out to stay ourselves get lost in the confusion of re-calibrating to each phase.

As we’re raising our babies, we can also re-raise ourselves, but we also need to go through the process of grieving and letting go of the version of us before we became a mother.

EFT is the perfect tool to go through the grief and loss of this part of you and honour what was, while holding space and curiosity for what is and will be.

Your Astrology chart is a blueprint or map to dive deeper into hand-crafting with care a more genuine you and greater sense of self!

3. Navigate seasons and cycles of life.

Life doesn’t come with a manual or way to predict the experiences that will arise. But you can be aware and prepare for the ebbs and flows of different influential cyclical themes and patterns as they arise.

Your personal Astrology chart can project patterns and themes, giving you insight and information about specific influential themes that will can arise during specific times. Again, not for predictive purposes, but as a guideline to work with and through unique energies.

Bringing EFT into the equation allows you to work through past, present and future experiences, specifically with Advanced EFT practices. This tool works directly with the nervous system to create inner safety and spaciousness so you can respond, or release reactions, in real time, as you’re having real life experiences during energy cycles and seasons.

2 Bonus Reasons you need EFT and Astrology as a mom…

4. Nervous System regulation and support

As mothers, we’re constantly on alert, our senses quickly become over-stimulated, over-extended and hyperaware of what’s going on. This leads to burn out and exhaustion, which can lead to further mental, emotional and physical dis-ease.

EFT works directly with the nervous system in a safe and effective way, signaling to the body that you’re safe, it’s safe to express thoughts and emotions, and that it’s safe for the body to express itself too. All the tightness and tension we feel as moms can be released through the outlet of Tapping, instead of taking it out on the people or surroundings around us.

There are unique parts of your Astrology chart that can give you insight in how to work with your body, subconscious, thoughts and emotions, so you can feel more connected and unconditional love and acceptance for these parts of you and the experiences that you go through.

5. Understand your significant other and/or kiddos more intentionally!

This is a real hidden gem, in my opinion, about having EFT and Astrology in your back pocket as a mom.

Astrology gives us insight and understanding about the people in our life, so that we can hold space, be more patient, accepting and present with others.

When it comes to our kiddos, we want to be there for them to guide them, but also to give them space to become the unique beings that they are, without imparting too much of our own stuff onto them. Understanding the essence of your child’s energy is a starting point for you to observe and guide in accordance to their unique personality, characteristics and innocent sense of self.

With our significant others, it can again open up space for more understanding and unconditional presence.

EFT then becomes a way for you to release conditions, expectations and standards that you may have intentionally or unintentionally placed on others. It gives you an opportunity to consider how others may naturally perceive things and to bridge the gap, if challenges arise.

Examples of this include understanding communication styles, emotional characteristics, and general temperament, navigating challenges and personality differences/similarities.

Again, these interpretations can assist you as a mom in being present in the most beneficial way for all involved for problem-solving, communication, and to generally meet them in a tailored-to-them attentive and nurturing way.

Disclaimer: I never use or share Astrology in ways that could manage, control or leverage against who someone is, nor does it define or label anyone directly. I do not work with anyone who intends to use it in this way. Especially with kids, Astrology is an observational tool, never to be used to place someone in a defined, rigid box or to set interpretations in stone.

If you’re looking for new tools to assist you as a mother that offers holistic, safe and effective approaches to creating more calm and clarity in the chaos of everyday mom-life, please consider booking an
Energy Management Session with me today! Email info@meganbaceda.ca for more information.